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Your Marriage & the Enneagram


  • The Sabbath Life 636 North Denver Avenue Tulsa, OK, 74106 United States (map)

This Enneagram workshop will help you see both yourself and your partner in deeper, more meaningful ways to help your relationship flourish.

Being married during a pandemic is no joke. Whether you’ve been married 20 years, 20 days, or you just got engaged, we all need some focused, intentional time to work on our relationship.

The Enneagram is an age-old tool for helping see both yourself and your partner with deeper empathy and compassion. It can provide us a shared language in our relationships to be more whole human beings. It represents a framework for helping us see what motivates us. It aids in growing our self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and empathy for others.

This workshop will feature a combination of teaching, small group dialogue, reflection time with your partner, and individual reflection.

This workshop will include:

  • a brief overview of each of the 9 Enneagram types and some basic questions for discerning your type

  • how the Enneagram helps you deepen your appreciation for your marriage partner

  • how you can communicate more effectively in your marriage based on the language of the Enneagram

  • how stress uniquely shows up for both you and your spouse and how you can help one another

  • practical, simple next steps for growing in connectedness once you identify your type

If you've explored aspects of the Enneagram and want to go deeper, this workshop is for you. If you want to invest in your marriage, this workshop is for you. If want to grow in love with your marriage partner, this workshop is for you.

The workshop is not for you if your relationship is in crisis. It should not be treated as a substitute for professional marriage counseling.

Space is limited so register now to make sure you have a spot!

Cost: $289 per couple.

Limited overnight accommodations are available onsite at the Abbey. Email us for a special discounted rate related to this event.

Earlier Event: March 2
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